Warning: This
post discusses race. It’s okay to talk
about race. In fact, it is necessary
community conversation and solitude contemplation. If you can’t handle the discussion, try to
learn to handle the discussion.
When a cop pulled him over to the side of the road
Just like the time before and the time before that.
In Patterson that’s
just the way things go.
If
you’re black, you might as well not show up on the street
‘Less you
wanna draw the heat
- Dylan, “Hurricane”
I
said, “If that’s against the law,
Tell
me why I never saw
A man locked in that jail of yours
Who
wasn’t either black or poor as me.”
- Kristofferson, “Best of All Possible Worlds”
Two
episodes this week challenge my view of the world and its beauty and fairness –
one, a hate-driven shooting rampage that killed nine people because of their
race. Hold on, hold on. Stop there a minute.
Turn off the desensitizing news shows, stop looking for political or
statutory solutions, and think about that. Some dude walked into a church, sat
with people for an hour and then killed them because of their skin pigment or
ancestry! … in America! …in the 21st century! Have you wrapped your head around that?
The
second episode involved a friend of mine returning home from work late Thursday
night in an affluent neighboring county.
Given a hypothetical of the drive home, many of you could easily
identify my friend as a black male in his early twenties. Conversely, if I told
you on the front end that my friend is a black male in his early twenties,
would you guess: a government official followed him from work; pulled him over,
like many times before; and ordered him out of the car as six squad cars came
screaming to the rescue. My friend sat
quietly on display beside the road for the good people to presume his crimes
while the K-9 unit searched his car.
Finding nothing after two hours, the government released him with
no citation and no record of the stop. My friend was told that he was pulled
over because the government official “could not read his temporary tag” aka: I’m sure you did something wrong and
illegal. You can dream up all sorts of rationalizations, but if your
explanation does not include prejudice, you’re wrong.
The
essence of prejudice is conclusion based on generalization. Can you guess the race and gender of someone
who is shocked by my friend’s story? or
defensive? or furious? or resigned to accept it as the way it is and
just happy he’s alive? Don’t guess and
don’t presume. Instead, let’s examine
our own thoughts and feelings and the foundations on which those feelings
stand. Then, recognize the other perspectives and seek understanding of their
foundations. That search for
understanding requires us to talk about it.
Prejudice
and hatred are brothers. They live in the same house and nourish each other.
Their home is our hearts, and their food is our souls. Evict them!
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